Our Little Brutus -- A Heartbeat At Our Feet.

A cat is a puzzle for which there is no solution..

By now you must all know that one of my favorite topics is Brutus.  I can write and talk about him forever.  You see most of you probably have children ...we don't..... all I have in that respect is Brutus and I adore this kitty with all my heart.

The same way you will do anything to protect your child I would also do for Brutus.  When we got Brutus Arvid was very doubtful about the whole idea of having a cat.  You see he never had a pet in his entire life....sad but true.  Looking at them today one would never think so.  Arvid is crazy about our kitty and pampers him sometimes more than I do....almost.

When we bought The Lil Red in Eleuthera we always had in mind bringing Brutus along with us.  He completes us.....as Arvid says we are a family.

Well I was a bit scared of the thought because he is only an indoor cat and here we ran the risk of Brutus getting out and just getting lost.  Arvid and I came up with the idea of building a little extension to the house...we call it Brutus' hallway.  What it does is that it gave us an extra protection against Brutus getting out.  We now have 2 doors we need to open to get into and out of the house.  We get into Brutus' hallway.  Close that door then open the main door to the house.  In this case if Brutus get out he is in this hallway and the door to the outside is closed.  It has worked great so far. 

Having Brutus here with us also keeps me busy.  The first time he was here he was very stressed out....you see Brutus is a city cat.....back home in Florida he is used to condo living and he loves it.  There he has his routines and his favorite sleeping spots, plus he has his own bedroom.....yep the laundry room.....from very little we trained him to go to sleep in his room by 11pm same time as we do. 

Now every night by 11pm he just waits for the TV to go off and is ready to go to sleep.  All we have to do is say "to the room" and Brutus runs to his room.   In the mornings we get him up at 7:30 or whatever time we wake up.  Not a problem. 

The problem is that here in Eleuthera his routined changed.  He still has his own room...the office.  Much bigger than the one in Florida but for some reason he does not sleep through the entire night.  Still goes to bed at 11pm...is waiting for Arvid actually.....but every morning he is awake by 4:30 to 5:50 crying and clawing to get out of his room.  He has even learnt how to open his bedroom door and also ours.  We have now devised a way in which Brutus cannot turn the door handle.  First we padded the door form inside (you can see a rug on the inside of the door) so that the noise from the scratching is dimmed.  We then found a stick and we use that to anchor the door handle from the outside making difficult for him to open the door.  So far this is working but the clawing and crying continues.  I get up by 5:50 most days so that I can get him out of his room and so that he does not disturb Arvid.  Arvid gets too crabby if he does not get his sleep.

Right now it is 5:30 and I am awake with Brutus...I don't mind he is such a good kitty.  I brush him, play with him and in a few mintues he and I will join Arvid in bed for a few more hours of sleep.

Brutus does not have a problem during the day time.  He has completely adapted to this Island Living and he also loves it.  Sleeps most of the days or just watches the birds and butterflies from his little condo on the inside.  He also loves to sleep on that condo.....he like most cats can sleep all day long and he also has his favorite spots here.  The challenge remains the early morning hours.....still working on it.  If you have some suggestions they are appreciated......well now it's back to bed.  Looking forward to what today holds....each day has been very rewarding and very fullfilling  We have blended into the laid back lifestyle and it will be sad leaving it and having to go back to the grind of the city life......but that's not until Friday.  Still have many more days to live the Island Life.......

No matter what we do we are having fun as you can tell from the pictures.  Most were taken yesterday at Sky Beach.  The drinks were nice and cold, the band played good music, the pool was deliciously refreshing.......and the company was the best....Arvid & and I.  Even my feet were relaxed.....

Give thanks for what you are now, and keep fighting for what you want to be tomorrow

until next time....

A PET’S TEN COMMANDMENTS

We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals....

Today I dedicate my blog to pets....for all of us that are lucky to have a pet you will relate to this....for those that don't I believe you will also be able to understand the bond a pet owner and their pets share.....

1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful.

2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.

3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.

4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your I friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.

5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.

6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.

7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember

that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.

8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative,

ask yourself if something might be bothering me.  Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.

9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too,  will grow 

old.

10. On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so. ALWAYS!

BRUTUS…LIL MYSULF

I love you with all my heart and we will always take care of you.

Mama and Dada 2010.

You came to us on October 18 2006

          
  One of the happiest days of our lives...not a day goes by without us realizing how lucky we are to have Brutus in our lives.  Can't imagine life without him.

"A house is not a home without a pet"

"Dogs have owners, cats have staff"

Brutus or Lil' Mysulf

Brutus came into our lives October 18th 2006.

Before Brutus I had 5 other kitty cats, but because of circumstances I had to give them up for adoption. I regret this everyday and I miss them with all my heart. Granted I found good homes for them.

Arvid and I have no children so when he agreed I could have a cat again I was in heaven. Could not wait to go to the shelter and find us our new baby kitty. We saw a few but when Brutus walked into the room there was no need to see more. Arvid fell in love with this tiny little fur ball and for me that was enough....because you see I was going to have my kitty.

The fact that he became such an important part of our lives was not surprising to me. What surprised me the most was that Arvid was so smitten with this tiny, cuddly little creature. That alone made me love him (Arvid) even more.

As time went by Arvid was more and more fascinated by this kitty cat. He named him and he gave him a birth date. We celebrate his birthday on May 17th. This is significant for Arvid because May 17th is Norway's Constitution Day. It is the the equivalent of our July 4th. For him to do so meant that Brutus was an important part of our lives......

Brutus is now king of the house. He does what he pleases and amazingly enough he manages to get Arvid to do his bidding. Smart cat. Arvid is a workaholic, but somehow when Brutus meows Arvid stops what he is doing and just follows kitty around to see what he wants. Brutus has had a calming effect in our lives........

Brutus is a very important part of our lives and when we make plans we always take his needs in consideration....as Arvid says he is a baby........and we love him so.

Right now Brutus is sitting right next to me keeping me warm....

For those of you that have a pet you like me are lucky because what our pets bring into our lives is more than what we give to them....our Brutus has brought us many happy moments and continues to do so daily.....

I love you Brutus....

As a sideline, Haiti has been struck with a devastating earthquake. Hundreds of thousands of people are either dead, missing or badly injured. We who are not affected sometimes do not think of what it must be like to have lost everything and everyone we love.....

If you can just find it in your hearts to contribute or to donate anything I bet it would be greatly appreciated and it would sure make a difference....all it take is one person to make a difference.....

I would like to make a difference and I hope some of you would also.....

That's it for today......