Jan 2, 2012

Always Positive...

A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty...For myself I am an optimist - it does not seem to be much use being anything else...

The other day Arvid said that he has never met anyone like me.  Something he does often.  He said that I was one of the most confident, self sufficient and yes big time talkers he has ever met.  I took it as a compliment. Not to toot my own horn but one of the things I like best about me is that I am me and I am never influenced by the opinion of others.  If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it   I have strong opinions and strong convictions.  I am very confident in myself and I have never needed anyone to lift or build my self esteem.    I was once asked "what do you consider to be your strong points"?  Without hesitation, I said that "I have the utmost confidence in myself and whatever I choose to do I know that I will give it my best shot come what may come" 

I may not always be right (quite often I am not), but that has never stopped me from reaching for my goals and pursuing my dreams.  I always believe in me.  Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.  Whatever you say, say it with conviction.  Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.

What I am trying to say, it that no matter what, make the most of you.  Never let anyone tell you what you can or can't do.  It does not matter if you do not meet with success every time.  what matters is that you never give up and you always listen to that inner voice in you that says "yes, I can", "yes I am a winner"  Yes, you can be a dreamer and a doer too, if you will remove one word from your vocabulary: impossible.  Just remember, never allow a person to tell you no who doesn't have the power to say yes....


Confidence comes naturally with success but, success comes only to those, who are confident so, begin your day with great confidence. Believe in your dreams and they may come true; believe in yourself and they will come true.   HAVE A NICE DAY.

Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do...You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else...

until next time..