Nov 15, 2025

Saturday November 15th~

An ocean breeze puts a mind at ease...


 Greetings from Fort Myers Beach, Florida.  Arvid and I
 decided to take a couple of days at the beach. The last time we 
were here, it was so beautiful we almost ended up buying a 
place, fortunately we came to our senses (for now)
 and decided to first try it out with an Airbnb.


So many places have re-built after hurricane Ian.  
Checking them out makes me happy.  We are staying right
 on the beach, and I love it.  Temperature is a bit cooler 
than we would like, but that's what jackets are for.


To all a very good day.  Greetings from sunny Florida.


Let the waves carry away your worries...

~Nadiya~

Nov 14, 2025

Friday November 14th~

Meet me where the sky touches the sea...


 Arvid and I will be taking a couple of days
 to ourselves.  I'm sure by the pictures you can
 tell where we are going to be going.  We have 
never had a bad experience at the beach.


We will be having a little late anniversary celebration.
 We have been together for 25 years.  Married for 24 of
 those.  It has had its ups and downs, but there is no one 
I would rather spend my forever with than with Arvid.


We are both looking forward to some relaxing 
days.  I'm looking forward to walking on the beach
 and getting salt in my hair.  I love the beach.


Sniff is home, but well cared for by Gail.  To all a very
 good day and may your weekend be a happy one as well.
  They say that A day at the beach restores the soul.


My sense of direction leads me to the beach...

~Nadiya~

Nov 13, 2025

Thursday November 13th~

Everyone must take time to 
sit and watch the leaves change...


 The colors of Fall, just beautiful and since we also 
have a place in Branson, Missouri I am always happy 
when someone posts a picture that takes my breath away.
  In fact most do, but this one posted by Scott Pratt in 
Branson is a favorite because Arvid and I have 
frequented this place several times.  


Big Cedar Lodge.  Beautiful spot and it's also 
where we always enjoy a good frozen custard.  
We enjoy the scenery and how relaxing a time
 it is.  It is also where we always see deers.


The day ended with another gorgeous sunset and 
best news for the day, F23 laid her first egg for
 the season.  Hopefully another egg to come.


To all a very good day. Everyday with these 2 is a good day.


If a year was tucked inside of a clock, 
then autumn would be the magic hour...

~Nadiya~

Nov 12, 2025

Wednesday November 12th~

We are here to add what we can to life,
 not to get what we can from life...

 Today is still going to be a really cold day
 for us Floridians, but come tomorrow it will 
gradually warm up again.  Florida in the 
winter time, the place to be. Can't beat it.


Yesterday we went once again to my mom and 
dad's home.  Arvid finished assembling my dad's 
office, we had a delicious lunch, and then Arvid 
began hanging pictures/paintings on the wall.  


The house is taking shape.  Thankfully it is 
not as big as their home was in North Carolina.  
Less work and easier for them to take care of.


Today hopefully we will just stay at home.  I 
have a few things to take care of as does Arvid.  Also
 I want to spend some time with Sniff.  Seems like we 
are constantly on the move even when we aren't.


To all a good day. Still chilly but it is surely
warming up nicely already.  Looking forward to
 a day "off"  Yesterday's sunset from our balcony.


The Northern lights, seen in Florida, Branson 
and many other places last night.  What a sight.


Whenever you want to see me, always
 look at the sunset; I will be there...

~Nadiya~

Nov 11, 2025

Tuesday November 11th~

A successful marriage requires
 falling in love many times, always 
with the same person...

 Yesterday Arvid and I celebrated 24 years of marriage.  
It has been a very good run so far.  I will not lie and 
say perfect, nothing in life is perfect, but together
 we have learnt so much from each other and best
 of all is that we complement each other.


Neither one of us is easy.  We come from different
 backgrounds.  I am Indian/Hindu. Arvid is Norwegian. 
Whereas I am outgoing, Arvid was an introvert, but 
much better now.  I talk to everyone, he usually
would try to "pretend" they are not there.


With all our differences, and yes there are 
many more, yet we somehow see eye to eye on 
what's really important in life.  Like I said it was 
not always this way, but through the years we 
can actually tell what the other is thinking.


One of the biggest turning points in our 
relationship was when we got Brutus.  I saw
 a side of Arvid I had not seen before. A softer,
 gentler side. Brutus made him a better man. 


The way Arvid loved and cared for Brutus will 
forever be one of the main reasons I love him 
so much.  He is the same today with our 
Sniff.  Brutus will always be special.   


Temperatures have dropped a good 30 degrees
 from what it was yesterday morning.  Everyone here 
is bundled up and Sniff is no exception.   We woke 
up to 42 degrees F (5.5C)  For us that is very cold.


The greatest marriages are built on 
teamwork, a mutual respect, a healthy dose 
of admiration, and a never-ending
 portion of love and grace...

~Nadiya~

Nov 10, 2025

Monday November 10th~

 Your present circumstances don’t 
determine where you can go; they
 merely determine where you start...


Sunday morning was a busy one for me. I did 
my Trader Joe’s shopping.  Only place that sells
 the bread Arvid likes. Got a few other things 
and walked around a few stores for a bit .


After that I went to Publix and got some lamb 
chops for mom and dad, and a few steaks for 
Arvid and I.  Always fruit and fresh vegetables 
on the list.  I like going to grocery stores.


Got home, Arvid was watching soccer and he was 
not happy because his team Liverpool was trailing.  
They ended up losing the match to Manchester City.
Thank goodness for Sunday outings to cheer him up.


This week we will continue to assemble furniture
 for mom and dad. Hopefully we can do it all in one
 day. My dad’s office furniture has a million parts.
  Thank goodness he didn’t get it from IKEA, otherwise
 we would have five million parts 😭to deal with.


As usual Arvid and I had a very relaxing outing 
yesterday.  As I always said, nothing like being
 by the water to soothe the mind and soul.


Life is very interesting, in the end some of your
 greatest pains become your greatest gains...

~Nadiya~

Nov 9, 2025

Sunday November 9th~

Every day may not be good… but 
there's something good in every day...

Yesterday after breakfast and  while Arvid watched
 soccer I went over to mom and dad’s. It’s about a half
 hours drive from us.  Not the worse. I was there for a 
few hours, helped with some unpacking of a few
 boxes, chatted and enjoyed their company.  


It is so nice to have them here in Florida
 and to know that they are just a short drive
 away from us.  A big comfort and relief.


I got back home, soccer was still going. I then
 proceeded to make lunch. Arvid will be the first to tell
 you he’s no good in the kitchen. Sometimes I would
 love to come home and have lunch/dinner already
 made for me.  So far it has never happened 😭 but,
 he makes me laugh and he makes me happy.


We’ve been having beautiful weather, but
 that is all about to change  this coming week we
 will have a 50-60 degree drop in temperatures
 in Florida🥶, but as Floridians we all know
the cold will only last for a few days. 


Last night we went downtown and what 
a great time we had. I love seeing so much life 
everywhere around us.  People everywhere. 
 It was just so alive. We love it there.


We enjoyed a few drinks. People watched and 
of course towards the end of the evening made our 
way to toe pizza place.  It's a must.  The night is not
 complete without that one slice of pizza.   We had 
a great outing.  Got back home and watched a
 movie with Sniff all curled up by our side.


To all a very good day.  To Arvid a Happy 
Father's Day.  Today is fathers day in Norway.


If I can say I had fun, it was a good day...

~Nadiya~

Nov 8, 2025

Saturday November 8th~

I'm so tired that even my tiredness is tired...

 Yesterday neither Arvid nor I were in the mood
 to go downtown.  Well we were, but I really did not 
feel so good.  For some reason my knee was hurting 
all day long.  I had a terrible night, and when I woke 
up it didn't really get any better.  The pain I mean.


Also Arvid had a few thing to take care of, we had 
the maintenance people come and clean out the vents
 in the dryer, so we stayed busy for most of the morning. 
 In the afternoon Arvid watched a soccer game, Sniff slept
 for hours and I watched a few episodes of my shows.
Nothing takes away the blues like a good sunset.


Today there are many games for Arvid.  Usually
 weekends are full of soccer. I like it because I go see 
mom and dad for a few hours, then come back home and 
make lunch.  It's a lot of rushing around, but I like it.


A good day to all.  Ours has begun beautifully.  Again.


Don't stop when you are tired; 
stop when you're done....

~Nadiya~

Nov 7, 2025

Friday November 7th~

Whatever your life's work is, do it well. A
 man should do his job so well that the living, 
the dead, and the unborn could do it no better...


Yesterday we had a long day working at mom 
and dad's.  Well Arvid did most of the work.  He's 
assembling their office furniture, and trust me when 
Arvid works he takes no breaks, but even he could not
 finish all yesterday.  To be continued another day.


  Mom always makes Arvid's favorite whenever we 
go by them.  She makes the best scalloped potatoes, and
 makes so much that I usually have an extra 3-4 meals for
 Arvid.  That he does not mind me bringing back home.


Once back home we were both tired. A good shower,
 a cup of tea and in the evening we watched a few of our
 favorite TV shows.  Sniff "stole" Arvid's chair again so 
Arvid moved to another,  Within minutes Sniff moved 
to be with Arvid.  It was a good evening at home.


A good day to all.  Hoping to just be home and 
take care of things we need to do here as well.
Morning is here and a beautiful one it is.


Yesterday ended last night, today
 is a brand new day, and it's yours...

~Nadiya~

Nov 6, 2025

Thursday November 6th~

 Hardships often prepare ordinary
 people for an extraordinary destiny...


Yesterday I went over a little to mom and 
dad's to help with some unpacking.  Basically 
mom unpacks, but we get the boxes to her. 


 There are MANY boxes left.  Mom spoke to
 a friend here in Florida and the friend told her 
that they moved from Orlando to their new place
 here in Florida some five years ago, and they still 
have tons of boxes in their garage still unpacked.  
Remember, there is nothing new in an old box.


Yesterday I also went to my endocrinologist. 
All appears to be okay, except she found some growth
 tissue where my thyroids used to be.  Follow up in six 
months then maybe another biopsy.  Depending
 on what she finds, then we go from there.


On my way home I had to take a picture of the
 car in front of me.  Yes, we were stopped at the 
red light. Have not seen this one too often.


Today Arvid and I go back to mom and dad's. 
 Arvid will be assembling some office furniture, and
 we have a few more "chores" to do.  Next week 
he will begin hanging their paintings. 


A good day to all.  Good things are happening
 today.  Hope the same goes out to all of you.


Let's celebrate something today...

~Nadiya~