Feb 26, 2013

See Me...

If a man stops giving you the same attention, 
it's because another woman already has his...

Even though I knew she was crying, she told me she was doing all right. 
 She said she did not need him, yet everything she did screamed that it was a lie.  I have seen many times in her in her eyes that she was just waiting for him to call, to say yes I will come over and spend the day with you, just something that said, "yes, I care. I also love you"   She still waits for that day.

All she wanted was a little attention from the man she loved.  

Too often we are so busy with our own lives we forget the ones closest to us.  
The ones that never ask for much, but have so much to give.  
We forget that a little attention goes a long way. 
I look at my friend and so many others and I know they are good persons.
  I know they deserve better, yet life so far has been very unfair to them.  
I am just grateful and happy to have Arvid and I will treasure him for the rest of my life. 
 Neither of us is perfect, but that's what makes us so human.

They say actions speak louder than words.  I absolutely believe this.  
Anyone can tell you anything they want.  
They can say I love you, I need , you, I miss you, you are the best... etc, 
but saying it is not enough.  
You also have to show it and here is where Arvid comes in...
and for that I love him.

Whatever you do, never forget to let the one you love know you care.
Sometimes all it takes is a kind word followed by an action showing you care.
For some it's that touch, that look.

 Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity...
As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. 
I just watch what they do...