Jan 4, 2015


I never really make solid resolutions. I think if there's something one needs to 
change with oneself, it doesn't have to happen in the New Year...

2015. A fresh start. A new chapter in life waiting to be written. New questions to be asked,
 embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative
 year of delight and self-discovery. Today carve out a quiet interlude for 
yourself in which to dream, pen in hand. Only dreams give birth to change.

Wishing you all a very good day and that your 2015 so far has been memorable. We all have 
our resolutions.  Yesterday as I was talking to my girl friend I asked what was hers. She 
said she really wished for the same as most.  Peace, health and better world, but then 
she said,"Nadiya you know those are always the same things every year.

This year though something different happened,  Of course I asked what, she looks at me with
 this big smile and said, "my ex said I was a fat lazy cow."  Well I was not sure what to
 say and what exactly she meant so I just waited her out.  Finally I asked what she
 meant.  She said that this was the best thing he could have said because now
 she was going to prove how wrong he is.  Yes, her new New Year's resolution
 is to prove him wrong.  Whatever works for someone is all that matters.

  I would have thought she would have been upset, but she was all smiles.  Made me smile
 also, and of course we had some laughs talking about her ex and about other stuff. 
 Like I always said "the girl is a riot and just knows knows to make one laugh,"

Happy Sunday everyone.

Don’t make empty resolutions about this or that external little thing – make one huge 
resolution to give yourself to yourself. Then everything else will quite effortlessly fall into place...