Aug 21, 2025

Thursday August 21st

Worry is like a rocking chair: it gives you
 something to do but never gets you anywhere...

 As usual I go out every morning between 
6:30 -7AM to feed Oliver.  Even if don’t see him 
from our window I know when I go he will be there. 
 Yesterday morning he was not there I looked and
 called for him for some time but no Oliver. 


I waited patiently for Dave our neighbor to take 
Jackson, his dog out for a walk so that I could ask if he 
knows where Oliver is.  He always takes Jackson out 
by 7-7:30 AM.  Not yesterday.  I sat by the window all
 day long waiting for Oliver to show up.  He didn't.


The food and water bowls we leave for Oliver 
were all gone.  So worried.  It’s not his usual routine
 and cats are creatures of routine.  I just hope he is 
okay. By 10AM I was really freaking out.  Last time I
 saw him was on Tuesday the 19th in the morning.


 They say that worrying about things you can't control 
is useless and immobilizes you. Worry is interest paid 
on trouble.  I wish I was able to not worry.  Seems as if 
I spend a huge chunk of my time worrying about one thing
 or another.  I wish I were more like Arvid, he usually never 
worries about much.  Life is so much easier his way.


At 6PM I finally gave in and knocked on
 Dave's door.  He also said he has not seen Oliver 
since yesterday. I hope he is okay.  The apartment he 
was living in had people coming to clean it.  Oliver 
was in and out with them. I hope they took him and
 will give him a forever home.  I am so so sad


A beautiful day begins here.  Skies are blue 
and the sun is shining.  Sniff is keeping a keen 
eye out for birds and squirrels while relaxing.


To all a very good day.  No Oliver. Hopefully 
someone took him home with them.  I am so sad not 
knowing what happened to him.  He just disappeared. 


It was only 22 days Oliver was in my radar.  I keep
 looking for him, but I know he was taken by someone.  I just 
hope it was to give him a forever home.  He's is just so very 
affectionate.  Charlie did show up almost to ouu building today. 
 Of course I fed him, but he has a home and he's not Oliver.


Every man has his secret sorrows which the world 
knows not. The heart was made to be broken... 

~Nadiya~

Aug 20, 2025

Wednesday August 20th~

Life's most precious moments
are not all loud or uproarious...

 I am still in awe of Mount Rainier National Park.
  The picture below was taken from one of the restaurants we 
went to.  You see it from all places. Quite impressive.


Reshma and Torin were a little worried about Apollo meeting us. 
 She said he would probably bark a lot and jump on us.  Well none
 of that happened.  Apollo never barked at us.  Could be because
 Mala took him so many presents and treats.  Apollo is the most 
sweetest dog.  He loved his grandma and aunt (me) right 
away, and we love him. I actually miss his cute lil' face.


This trip reminded me a little of the time I had last summer 
in San Francisco.  In both places we used every minute
 of our time to try as see as much as we could.  Reshma 
and Torin are tireless.  The perfect tour guides 😍


Reshma and Torin got Apollo a "human bed" 
as they call it, and yes, he does sleep in it.  Apollo loved 
his grandma.  He always wanted to be close to her.


His human bed.  He like all our pets is super pampered,
 and has everything and more he can want.  Happy boy.


Yesterday Arvid and I went walking at the RecPlex. 
 I only did a mile before it became unbearable on my
 knee, but it is always good to do some walking.  
With the heat index it was a pretty HOT day.


I have been awake once again way too early.  Sniff 
has been brushed already, and is now on the lookout
 for the birds.  It is still very dark but he is patient.
A good day to all. A "cool down" is on its way.


Whoever is happy will make others happy.
Happiness shared is happiness doubled...

 ~Nadiya~

Aug 19, 2025

Tuesday August 19th~

Make memories; leave only footprints...

 Mala and I left Seattle yesterday.  What a wonderful
 time we have had. We had the best tour guide anyone could
 wish for, my niece Reshma and her better half Torin.


They took us everywhere.  We started our days very
 early in the mornings.  To say I am a bit tired right 
now would be an understatement, but it was 
so worth it. Would do it again in a flash.


We’ve seen many things/places but two that stand out 
are, first Mount Rainier.  One of the things off my bucket
 list.  Impressive.  Massive.  Just incredible, and we hardly
 touched the surface of it.  It’s a humongous National Park.


I have decide that when I go someplace I want to go
 and see and experience it all. Well as much as “all” means 
and to do so I have to do much of it om my own. With Arvid 
we do different things.  Not bad, but I want to see more.


On my own I experience everything there is to 
experience and to see for the amount of time we have. 
I have seen enough beaches and oceans, not wish to see
 more, but I wish to see more than just a beach now.  
Mount Rainier left me speechless.  It is an active
 volcano, and while it has not erupted recently, 
it is expected to erupt again in the future.


One of the other very cool places we visited was 
Pike Market Place in Seattle.  A must see if Putin Seattle. 
I have to add that  thought Seattle would be all rain.
  Well it was not. We had gorgeous weather. Just perfect
 for what we needed to do. It was another good day.


 At Pike Place Market we actually experienced 
blue skies and within a few hours the fog came.  Pretty
 amazing and spectacular.  I loved it. Same happened 
at Mount Rainier.  The skies change in minutes.


In between all of these places we went out to many 
cool spots for drinks and appetizers, then another
 for dinner.  We ate so much food I don’t know how
 it was even possible. But it was so much fun.


I have had Chinese food in many big cities,
 New York City being one, but the meal we had in 
Seattle was the best Chinese food I have ever had.
 I would visit again just to go to that restaurant.


Another special evening was when we had dinner 
at sunset. This is not something Arvid would do.  We 
have a routine, and it's rare that he deviates from it. 
Our main meal is in the middle of the day.  We do 
miss out on some "better" dining at times.


  I'm good with it, but sometimes I love doing
 it differently.  I also enjoy watching the sunset at 
dinnertime, and on this particular evening we did just
 that.  We also enjoyed a very good meal, at great
 location and had a great time with loved ones.


I got to know Torin so much more and I have to say he is one
 of the calmest, kindest persons I have had the pleasure of
 knowing at such young age. Together he and Reshma are 
just perfect.  AsTorin said to me, “we are a team you know.” 
 Together with Apollo they are one very adorable family.


Getting back home from Seattle took a long time,
 but it was an easy flight. I had a stopover in Chicago; 
our old stomping grounds. Not enough time to do
 much, but it felt familiar.  I love airports.


Always the best part of any trip is getting back home.
 Seeing Arvid with his big smile, and then coming back
 home to Sniff.  Sniff was a tad bit aloof with me most of 
the day, but by evening he was back to loving me.


I also saw and fed Oliver. He had lots of food 
anyway I refilled his bowl, but I always give him a 
can of soft food.  I had a great time, but am happy
 to be home again.  I have had a busy day so far.


The day is halfway done and I still have a lot to do.
  Hope everyone is having a great day so far.


The best things in life are the moments captured in photos...

~Nadiya~

Aug 18, 2025

Monday August 18th~

The most beautiful moments always seemed to 
accelerate and slip beyond one’s grasp just when you 
want to hold onto them for as long as possible...


 We have had a really good time visiting Reshma, 
Torin and Apollo.  I am so happy I was able to do it 
with Mala.  Rima was supposed to be here also, but 
the airlines screwed up everything in the last minute. 
Prior to us visiting Torin's family also visited.


Rima is a hoot she sent us a little something to remind
 us of her personality.  She said to us, "there will be no 
food at my funeral.  You are there to cry, not eat."  And
 we never stopped laughing and having a great time. We 
definitely missed her upbeat self and her unique laughter.


It was good being with everyone, but I am also looking
 forward to going home to Arvid and Sniff.  I really missed my 
Sniff, but knowing that Arvid was with him it was all good. 
 It's not as if we were both gone and he was all alone.
  Goodbye for now Reshma, Torin and Apollo.


My journey back to Branson takes me through 
Chicago.  I have a few hours layover.  Would have rather 
a direct flight, but those are getting fewer and fewer.

Back to the "hectic" life with Arvid.  I was happy for 
these few days.  I got to do what I loved most and enjoy 
time with family.  Ready to be busy again with Arvid, most
 of all can't wait to see my lil' Sniff and give him love.


If you've had a good time playing the game, 
you're a winner even if you lose...

~Nadiya~

Aug 17, 2025

Sunday August 17th~ A Day Off

  Almost everything will work again if you 
unplug it for a few minutes…Including you...   

Out of the "office."  Will be back tomorrow 😂It is very
 important to recharge our batteries to uplift our spirits and
 refresh our perspectives towards life. It is often said that the
 best way to recharge yourself is to unplug yourself from the 
daily duties for sometime.  It's what I plan to do today.



To all a good day and "see" you tomorrow. 
Taking a break helps you understand yourself
 better and recharges your drained battery.

What better way to spend a day off than with
 family.  Today we take in more sites and we
 do a little celebrating as well.  You only live
 once, but if you do it right, once is enough.


Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look
 around once in a while, you could miss it...

~Nadiya~

Aug 16, 2025

Saturday August 16th~

 During life’s highs and lows, hurts
 and happiness, a sister is always there...


I have always heard so much about Seattle, 
Washington.  Mostly how much it rains.  Well we will
 have the opportunity to see how true this is.  I came
 prepared with my umbrella, and I'm glad for that.


Hopefully today the day will be perfect.  No rain, 
no clouds.  You see today is Mala's birthday.  Truth is
 rain or not we have already made plans and today
 we celebrate.  Tonight even more so.


Mala is the 4th of five girls to my parents.  If there 
was ever a more easy going child than her then I will 
stand corrected.  In a way I helped to raise her even 
though I am only 3 years older.  Rima is the baby
 in the family, but Mala is like my baby.


It's not often I get to be with one of my sisters on
 their birthdays.  Life happens and it is not always easy to
 coordinate plans, but today I get to celebrate with Mala, 
(birthday girl), Reshma and Torin.  I'm grateful and
 I am happy.  Today is definitely a special day.


A woman without her sister is 
like a bird without her wings...

~Nadiya~

Aug 15, 2025

Friday August 15th~

Let the good times roll, the beginning is always today...

 Greetings from Tacoma, Washington.  For the
 next few days myself and Mala are here visiting
 Reshma, Torin and their fur baby Apollo.  This has 
been a long time coming, and finally we are here.


What makes this trip even more exciting is that 
this is Mala's birthday weekend, and we have plans. 
 Reshma and I have been seeking out some cool spots
 to go to.  We  arrived yesterday, and it's a miracle we 
even got up this morning. Reshma, Mala and I have 
planned to use every minute of this mini getaway.
  We can always sleep when we get back home.


Looking forward to doing absolutely nothing.  Just have 
a good time.  Good food, good drinks and share unforgettable
 moments with everyone.  When I get back home I will post
 more pictures.  Time to get going and see the sights.


My heart is full.  I get to spend time with Mala, Reshma, 
Torin and Apollo.  Reshma holds a very special place in 
my heart.  All my nieces and nephews do.  For different
 reasons.  Reshma in many ways is my baby girl 😍


You make my world brighter just by being in it...

~Nadiya~

Aug 14, 2025

Thursday August 14th~

Good morning! Today is not just another day, it's a
 new opportunity to make your dreams a reality...

Once again we were awake too early, but since
 we like early mornings not a problem.  Today Sniff 
was not feeling it.  He roamed around most of 
the night, so now he's really exhausted.


Every morning as I go to feed Oliver and Charlie
 if she's out, I get a chance to see the sunrise.  This morning
 it was just starting to rise as I was feeding the kitties. 
 I am always so in awe of sunrises and sunsets.


I am already in love with Oliver. He is affectionate and 
he loves being touched.  I am just so happy that when we
 are not here the neighbor will continue to feed him.  Dave the
 neighbor is also trying to get him adopted.  Fingers crossed.


Once again Arvid and I did some exploring.  As 
Arvid likes to say, "now we have a few things to do."  
When Arvid needs a little time, he plays solitaire.


On one of our exploring trips we saw many beautiful
 homes on the lakes.  Of course Arvid once again wants a 
lakefront home.  Not happening, but nice to have a dream.


To all a very good day.  Morning is here and so
 are the birds and squirrel.  Live entertainment.


Just one small positive thought in the
 morning can change your whole day...

~Nadiya~