How different every hour is from the one before...
With each new month I choose to start it with a picture of my
Brutus, Shadow and Sniff. Nothing has made me happier
than them. Actually my 5 California kitties also brought
happiness into my life. They started my love for cats.
Let's welcome this new month of and make it a month of
love, peace, joy, happiness, and gorgeous things. May this new
month bring you all the good things you deserve in life. Forget
the bad memories and know that no matter, what life goes on.
You may not be able to control what happens in life
but you can control how you respond to it. Happy
new month and may we all achieve many of the
goals (if not all) we set out to accomplish.
As a new month begins my wish is that
Victoria and Michael will get through this grief
period faster than than I did. Grief is not good, and I hate
the thought of what they are going through. Yes, I know the
world has overwhelming grief, but right now my world
is the world where the ones I care for are hurting, and for me
that's all that matters right now. Because I can feel their grief,
their anger, their hearts breaking, and I don't like it 💔.
Everyone means well. I know that, but remember,
YOU did not lose a part of your heart. You can say
you understand (and I know you mean well),
but your heart was not ripped apart.
Your heart was not shattered. So be kind. Grief is
different for everyone. To this day I mourn my Brutus and
Shadow, My Brutus took a part of me I will never get back.
Little Loffen took a piece of Victoria and Michael's heart
as well. No matter how much time goes by. That will
not change. Death ends a life, not a relationship. With
time though, the grief will become bearable.
As the saying goes: Grief is like the ocean; it comes
on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm,
and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn
to swim. There is no grief like the grief that does not speak.
Every day is a new beginning, because you can’t turn
the clock back. All great beginnings start in the dark...