Jan 13, 2026

Tuesday January 13th

Some things cannot be fixed, only carried…

I’m am so sad. So sad.  Whenever one of the pets in 
our family dies it breaks my heart all over again. For them. 
 For me. For Brutus and for what happened to Shadow. 
 Rima is my baby sister and Marley was her baby💔


The picture on the top right was taken by me 
when Arvid and I visited Rima and family in May 
of 2025,  Losing a pet is so traumatic. My mind 
goes to places I don’t want it to, but I just can’t
 stop it. One day Sniff will no longer be with
 us and right now I’m freaking out.



I always wish I could do more to ease the pain, 
but I know that they all have to go through this 
on their own. Grief is a journey of love and
 loss, and no one but yourself can walk it.


  We all grieve differently and there is no set time 
frame as to when grief is “over”.  I don't think I will
 ever stop grieving for Brutus. Yes I have moved on,
 but he took a part of me that will forever grieve.


Life does not stop no matter what we are going
 through.  That is a good thing right?  To all a very
 good day.  The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss
 is grief. But the pain of grief is only a shadow when 
compared with the pain of never risking love ❤


Sometimes losing a pet is more painful than 
losing a human because in the case of the
 pet, you were not pretending to love it...

~Nadiya~