Sep 22, 2015

It's Called Life...

Don't compare your life to others;  
you have no idea what their journey is all about...

People change and things go wrong, but always remember, life goes on. We give it our
 best shot that's all we can do, does not mean we give up. I was talking to someone
 today and the conversation left me feeling very sad and inadequate. Inadequate 
because I was not able to do anything to take away their sadness.

It brought back to me memories of a time long gone. A time when I was very 
sad and I never thought anything nor anyone would make me smile again.

That was one of the lowest points of my life. Fortunately, life has a way of 
bringing things into perspective and like it or not you have to move on.

I am hoping that one day life is good to my friend, I hope one day I can see that smile 
and hear the real laughter coming from her. Today everything seems so bleak,
 but I hope and I know that the future will be better. I always hope for the best, 
but I know that the person living these experiences does not see that light at
 the end of the rainbow no matter how much one tells them it is there.

 I know I never believed it. NEVER!!, but one day all of a sudden it seems like as if 
some heavy burden was lifted off me and everything was looking brighter and cheerier
 than ever.  The smile came back.  The laughter returned...the zest to live came back.
  This is what I wish for you. I wish you bright days full of joy, laughter and love.
 I am by your side every step of the way.

I am very lucky to have 5 sisters. Whenever I feel down I call one of them right away. 
Exactly what I did now. We were just reminiscing about when we were little girls with
 not a care in the world. Today we are each grown women with families of our own 
and like everyone with our own problems. Life we concluded is not easy...

I've finally found that life goes on without you, and my world still turns when you're
 not around. When the day is over it once again proves that time waits for no one and
 life goes on and that every day in life people separated for whatever reason have
 their separated distance go from hours, days, weeks until one day when the 
reality really sets in that they're gone for good hopefully leaving
 us with a positive and loving memory.

It may seem harsh right now but, time/life waits for no one.  You have to be the one
 to take the first step and say I am ready for a change and just go for it.  I cannot guarantee 
it will be the best thing you cold do, but let me ask how much worse can it be? 
 Life is for living and I hope you find your way through this dark period. 

Friends, from experience I know that in times like these it is always good 
to have the support of family, loved ones and yes good friends...A friend is 
someone who is there for you when he’d rather be somewhere else.

Regardless of how it goes down, life goes on, life is a song love is the lyrics...
you never know how strong you are, until being strong is the only choice you have...